Sometimes, just holding the person's hand is enough.
However, if that person doesn't like it when you attempt to lead,
or change the path of where that person is going, while expecting
you to just follow the lead and be happy with that, what does that
say?
Worse, if that person leads, and you follow, and it ends up in a
bad place, that person blames you for it, what does that say?
Lead or change the path when it is necessary, and if I follow, just
like I lead or change the path when it is necessary, and if you
follow, no matter which place we end up in, we can say we trod the
path together of our free will.